March 13th, 2010 at 2:22am
need help cus im a shy person and i freeze up talkin on the phone alotjust say hey "mrs. -insert last name here-" be polite and respectful! dont forget your manners, no foul language. and maybe ask her hows she doing, then things should be fine from there.wutever you do dont say you do drugs.Just be polite, truthful, and honest. =]Ask her how she is. Ask her what dinner was. Just answer all the other questions she asks. Good luck. just let her mom carry the conversation. if she has questions answer them the best you can. DONT say I dont know. Always ask questions like "how was your day" or "how have you been" back. Dont ask back every question just ask back the ones you think she might like to answer. Be respectful, dont swear, be polite, sound interested, and be mature.Okay, guy. Are you a man or a mouse????
How are you going to be a good bf if you're 'SHY'? Are you going to protect your gf if some guy starts harassing her or are you going to be "SHY"? Do you want to be seen as a man who can have a take care of a gf, or a boy???
You need to man up!just talk to her like normal. depends on what she says to you... just react to her questions and if you can think of extra to say, do, if not don't worry! i'm sure she'll understand you're shy.whats her angle and age?Be polite and respectful. Bashfulness is okay. Try to relax the more you talk to her the easier it will get. Ask her how her day was, talk about the weather if your gf mentions something sweet about her mom let her mom know- this will show that you listen and pay attention. Your gf's mom probably knows you are shy and is just trying to be nice and get to know you.Ask how she is doing? how was her day? Also ask her what their plans are so the weekend maybe you and her parents can go out for dinner.Well, she's no different from anyone else. Be cool, sweet and polite. Say, "hey, Mrs. Girlfriend's Mom, how's your day been going." Are you ready for Thanksgiving? How is Mr. XXX. Did you see the game today. Or if you haven't met Mom yet, she probably just want to meet you over the phone. She might ask about your family or school, but be cool. I have a little brother and he goes to xxx elementary school and is in the second grade. I'm doing okay in school. Math and Science are my favorite subjects. I'm trying to get good grade so I can go to college. She's only human.just answer her questions honestly. her mom doesn't like you big deal. your dating her daughter, not herhonestly it really isnt such a big deal talking with your girlfriends mom.
It is much easier talking over the phone then talking with them in person..they cant see your expressions..so just take a deep breath and just be yourself. talk freely with her. be opinionated. dont be shy dont hide behind the bush because they might think your hiding something and you definitely dont want that.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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